About me

Hi, I’m Kelly—single mama to my radiant daughter, Lily, and identical twin toddlers, Oak and Ash—nicknames I use here to keep their little worlds private. I’m a kidney cancer survivor, wellness advocate, and the heart behind Ashes & Wildflowers—a space rooted in resilience, real life, and the beauty that somehow blooms after everything falls apart.

I hold a master’s degree in counseling, which shapes the way I write about emotional literacy, healing, and motherhood. I believe in early, open conversations with kids, in creating safe spaces for big feelings, and in finding gentle ways to live with intention—even when life feels anything but gentle.

I’m also a lover of stories—especially the kind tucked inside memoirs. I read them to remember that every life holds layers, and that truth told tenderly can change us. I take millions of photographs for the same reason: to capture the quiet magic of my children, our cat, and the fleeting moments that make up a life.

A few things about me…

• I’m a morning person, but only if coffee is involved

• I love to sing in the car, until Lily says, “Mommy, stop”

• I’m always chasing quiet beauty—wildflowers, golden hour light, and the way my kids snuggle with Mama when they’re sleepy

• I’m passionate about non-toxic living and evidence-based wellness

• I keep a journal of Lily’s quotes, because preschoolers are tiny philosophers with great comedic timing

• I believe resilience isn’t just surviving—it’s choosing to rise again and again

If you’re here because you’re healing, parenting, or simply trying to live more intentionally, I’m so glad you found this space. I’d love to know what brought you here—feel free to reach out or leave a comment. There’s room for your story, too.

I hope you find a little light here.